Countdown to Bliss

It’s finally here! I’m headed to Nashville this morning for the Blissdom Conference and cannot wait to arrive!

Here’s the final countdown:

10- outfits packed for 3 days {Don’t judge me.}
9- pairs of shoes {This is a girly affair, folks.}
8- million cords and chargers {This is also a geeky affair- in a cute way.}
7- sorts of hair products {’cause I’m a Southern girl and I need some poof}
6- secret candy bars stashed in my bag
5- bags packed {seriously, but they aren’t all big bags}
4- extra camera batteries
3- sweet guys I’m leaving behind
2- hour drive
1- man waiting for me. Hello, Harry. I’ll be there soon..

Live reports from Blissdom next!

Do you know any other bloggers going that I can meet?
And any special words you’d like me to tell Harry?

Blissdom- What I Wish I Would Have Known LAST Year

Blissdom Conference ~ Nashville ~ February 4-6 2010

With BlissDom right around the corner and loads of articles and tips and advice in the blog world out there, I thought I’d go through my own list to share with you!

Don’t know what BlissDom is? It’s a conference for bloggers and all the info is on their conference site. It’s hosted by Blissfully Domestic and the One 2 One Network and is… well… Blisstastic.

Last year was my first year at Blissdom. Jason gave the ticket to me as a present since he noticed I had vanished into the “blogosphere”. He thought it might be nice for me to meet some of my own. And it was amazing! I read that someone compared it to being a smurf your whole life and walking in to find a huge room of smurfs! That was exactly it!

But looking back, I realize I was SUCH a rookie and really had no idea what was going on.

Here are some tips for other rookies that might be going this year:
10. Read ahead and find out about the sessions.
This will help you not look like a tourist studying your “map” at the conference. We will all have cameras around our necks, though, so you can’t totally escape from that look.

9. Find out who the speakers are.
Oh, how I wish, I wish I would have done this. I didn’t know ANYONE and that little tip would have saved me much embarrassment. Need we mention the Lisa Leonard incident? I think not.

8. Have business cards made.
I had NO idea this was like a networking thing. What a dork.
They don’t have to be fancy, but something with your name, blog and other info would be helpful if you meet a new friend. {And if you don’t have the mind of my man Chuck you will be thankful for everyone else’s cards, too!}

7. Do not be afraid.
Everybody else there is pretty geeky and will speak the same blog lingo. PROMISE.
And if you don’t even speak “blog”, there will be people there to translate.

6. Do NOT room by yourself {if you can avoid it}.
I was such a dork and {since I didn’t know ANYbody} just assumed I had to stay by myself. Get out there and hunt for other people going that you can split the room cost with! And you will surely find some new buddies that way! This year I’m staying with 2 of my favorite bloggy buds- Mary at Giving Up On Perfect and Jessie at Vanderbilt Wife.

I’m wondering if we will sleep. Magic 8 Ball says: “Outlook not so good”.

5. Learn the attire needed.
Oh my word. I had no idea there were cocktail parties there!
The word “cocktail” doesn’t scare me; it’s when combined with “party” that I start to quiver at the thought of wardrobe choices. Because my selection is saa-lim. Especially when I didn’t pack a thang.
Such is the case for last year when I arrived in jeans.

And nobody cared because they are cool like that. But it would have made ME feel better to have looked like I cared instead of a schlep.

4. Get on Twitter and figg-ur it out.
It’s a little kooky; I’ll be the first to tell you that. But, if you get the hang of it BEFORE BlissDom {unlike I did last year}, you will be WAY on top of the game. I had no idea what the proper usage of the word “Twitter” even was a year ago. {e.g. “Did he just Twitter on you?” “I don’t give a tweet what she said.” “Tweetle deedle dee, I think I just retweeted.”}

Let me know if you have Twitter questions and I might put together a very short post about the things I know about Twitter. I’m still not an expert, but Alli is {she even wrote an e-book on it}, so check that out.

You can start to follow the hashtag {that’s the number sign #} #BlissDom and get all the updated info and buzz on the conference.
Oh- and you can follow me on Twitter at @theothermama. Original. I know.

3. Take your computer.
This might seem like a no-brainer. That I might or might not have done last year.

Now that I think back, I think I took the hoopty laptop. I’m pretty sure I can’t convince Jason to let me take his very cool Mac Book Pro {because it’s his work computer… excuses, excuses}. Anyway, most people take their computer with them to the workshops. I hid my sad hoopty in my room {all by myself}.
And will most likely be doing that again this year.
Danggit.

2. Plan ahead.
Try to find out who is going and who you would like to meet! That really is the fun part.
E-mail new friends {or friends to be} and set up times to meet, sessions to sit together and any other plans! I can’t imagine anyone not being flattered to meet a blog reader, so let them know you’ll be there!
It’s like stalking their blogs… only better.

1. Have Fun!
I am SO stinking excited. And I’m sure it has NOTHING to do with the fact that Harry Connick, Jr. will be serenading us.
Harry Connick, Jr.
Uh huh. That’s right.

Don’t get drool in your keyboards, girls. I’ll be sure to bring you up close and personal details. You might recall that I have a slight crush on Harry.
Threesome
Just a little one.

So I’m looking forward to the trip!

Are you going to BlissDom? I’d love to meet you!
If so, is this your first year?
If not, would you ever consider going to a blogging conference?

Here are some great posts about BlissDom planning:

* Mary at Giving up on Perfect has a 2 part series {part 1} and {part 2} on her BlissDom tips
* Jo-Lynne at Musings of a Housewife has a wonderful {as always} what to wear guide
* Edie at Life in Grace has an awesome survival guide that highlights mullets and tube socks {as in… we’re not in 7th grade and you WILL be okay}.
* Amanda at Oh Amanda even has a series of guest posters on the topic. Now that is covering all your bases!

I’m happy to link up to my fab-o friend Amanda’s Top Ten Tuesday at Oh Amanda.
We’re going to rock it in real life. {Oh} yes we are.

Blissdom:: The Recap

I don’t know why I succumbed to the 2 colons in the title there. It seems to be the cool form of punctuation these days; I see it everywhere! They’re like a cute little square and I love them!
Let me tell you about Blissdom- it was amazing.
The things I liked most were getting to meet wonderful, fun bloggers and learning about blogging as a craft.
One of the first things we talked about was your personal goals. For me, I would just like to tell my story. I want to have a record of my crazy antics so my kids can lock me away someday for all the stuff I put them through. Or just not feel guilty if they don’t visit me in the old folks home. Truly, this documenting is an act of love for my family {it’s all they’re getting for V-Day}.
I also love to share stories and encourage other friends in the blogosphere. I enjoy connecting with other women {and guys} out there and you really do make my day.
So, without further ado, here are the top ten blogger-ific new things I learned at Blissdom ’09.

10. Blogger is at the bottom of the food chain for blogging platforms. WordPress is the “industry standard” and Typepad is not that bad either. Blogger is for beginners and is super easy. And that’s why I love it.

9. You can buy your own website with your name and connect your blogger site to that. {That’s what I’m going to do in the BIG CHANGE.}
8. Twitter is what all the cool kids do. There is a whole world of people out there “tweeting”. If you don’t know what that is, I will explain in a later post, but basically it’s a world of Facebook status updates. And, you need to update your Twitter pretty regularly- as in- at least every 8 hours. Or you’re dead to me. Well, not to me, but to the die hard twitter-ati {twitter mafia}.
7. If your blog gets 100- 200 visits a day, then it is in the top 10% of all blogs. You can track this several ways, but I track mine with Google Analytics.
6. Err on the side of caution with privacy. OK, whoops. Haven’t quite done that. That’s why, when the BIG CHANGE occurs, my kids’ names are going to be different. If you want to vote for new names for them, let me know in the comments section.
5. They’ll let just about anybody join the Twitter-ati. I’m already in. Let me know if you are a member of the Twitter-afia, too.
4. Pictures are a huge deal. I guess I knew this, but there are SO many cool sites with picture editing tools and storage info that I’ve got to start using. The one I’m most excited about is Picnik- especially since I got a one year free membership!
3. Blog layouts are also a huge deal. Of course I knew this, but I learned about where things need to be in a layout and how to make it remember-able.
2. I was not remember-able AT ALL when I got to meet and hang out with one of my favorite bloggers- Shannon from Rocks in my Dryer. I was like a bumbling idiot- much like when I met Keifer Sutherland. {What? You don’t know that story? I’ll post about it later…} Then I got to see her again on Saturday and apologized for my dorkiness. She is amazingly graceful and polite and acted like I hadn’t been a drooling groupie the day before. Just when we were getting to chatty and she might have had the impression that I was a normal person, I went and asked for a picture with her crossing the line back into dork-dom. Oh well. If she ever was going to be my friend, she might as well know the truth!

This is a horrible picture of me- obviously ignoring #4, but I’m getting over that.

1. Focus on good content and nothing else really matters. That was what I heard again and again from everyone. If you have the stuff that people want to read, then it doesn’t matter what your pictures look like, what your platform is or what kind of babbling, groupie idiot you are in real life.

I actually could list many more things I learned. The whole environment was really uplifting and encouraging; I will absolutely be back there next year! Thanks so much to the many people who put it on- the Blissfully Domestic Crew and the One to One Network. Phenomenal job, ladies!

P. S. Don’t tell Jason, but I have a new Valentine- or at least a new crush. He is Chris Mann and he came to sing for us live on Saturday. He is amazing. I have his CD and I might let you borrow it if you can claw it out of my white knuckled hands. His real CD isn’t out, yet, but I will be buying/ downloading it as soon as I can. We got a preview CD- how cool is that? Apparently it was only for the Twitter-ati. Being in the mafia pays.

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